Here is my connection test log
Using server nntest.cnc-online.net:30000
Bound to local port 56437
Bound to local alternate port 56438
Resolving hostname 'nntest.cnc-online.net'...
Resolved server host to be '37.247.49.213'
Sending client INIT from port 56437 to nntest.cnc-online.net:30000
Received server INIT [962969]
Our public address is 199.193.165.99:56437
Sending client INIT2 [962969] from port 56438 to nntest.cnc-online.net:30000
Received server INIT2 [962969]
Our alternate public address is 199.193.165.99:56438
Sending cient START [962969] from port 56438 to nntest.cnc-online.net:30000
Received server START [962969]
Server extra port is 40000
Sending client PING [962969] from port 56437 to nntest.cnc-online.net:40000
Received server PING(2) [962969]
Received server PING(3) [962969]
Received server PING(4) [962969]
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SUCCESS
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Received 3 pings from nntest.cnc-online.net:40000.
NAT negotiation works with your router and connection.
==> You do not have to use port forwarding.
Press any key to continue . . .
I can log into c&c online without any trouble but when I try to actually start a game with another player (my other computer trying to play RA3 with my wife)
I have an idea that the issue is that I am using the c&c ultimate collection and the other computer is using just RA3 though I did install it through origin. I have installed the new launchers on my computer. I have disabled origin in game and disabled origin keeping things up to date.
Not sure what to try next.