And then you can be so sure that gays are all about "love"? Oh sure it may start there, it's obvious they like the same sex, and can live together and do all kinds of stuff together.
What's the difference with friendship then? What's the difference between having a gay partner and just having a friend of the same sex? Obviously, it is the sexual activities, the sexual orientation involved. These are sexual preferrence we're describing, not... "likeness' or whatever..
Fact is, you could say the same thing about my male friends and boyfriend. That is a different connection. I am much closer with my boyfriend, he knows me like I know myself. Friends don't know me that well. Just enough for friendship. I mean they know me, but not like my boyfriend does. My boyfriend understands me better than most of my friends do.
My hobbies are more the same of my boyfriends' than of a friend. My closest friend at school likes games too (just as I do), but he likes fighting games and RPG, while I like RTS and FPS more (as does my boyfriend). You feel different about the one you love.
You will know what it feels like when it has happened. I'd rather lose a friend than lose him. Simply because he's not only the one I love, but he's also a great friend (friendship is important in love). And I'm certain that people who've loved someone for quite some time (since I do not mean the GF you have since a week) will agree with me, if it all goes well, eventually you can't even imagine a life without them. They are an important part of your life. You think about them at least once a day, probably even more. I don't think of all my friends every day. Feelings of love are different than 'just' friendship feelings. And the love gay people give, is just the same as the one non-homosexuals give, only it's to someone of the same gender. But they feel the same butterflies in their stomach, the same insecurity when talking to the other one. (when they are in love). Only sex is different. And marriage, and getting kids.
Furthermore I think they can talk about some things well. Think about it, who else than your lesbian partner would understand so well what a period is like.
Sex is different, it doesn't happen in the 'traditional' way, but as long as both have a good time, who complains? They'll find out ways to enjoy theirselves, the sexual intercourse is not the main part of the whole kissing-sex-thing. And it's mostly not the part that lasts the longest. And it's definately not the best part for the women (or so that's been said, it might be shocking for some of you men to hear
).
About adoption, I think gay people should be allowed to adopt a child. What's the difference of having one woman adopt a child (a single mother), or two women?
I mean if a man and a woman have a child, and the man dies, does the mother give up the child? No, of course not. So why shouldn't a single woman or two lesbian women (or two gay men) not be allowed to adopt a child? It's be difficult for the child maybe, but we are all different, I have darkbrown hair, your hair has (probably) a different colour. We are all different, this is just another difference. It's not bad, it's not something they should hide or anything. As long as they do give their child sex education.
