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#1 Elvenlord

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Posted 15 February 2009 - 12:50 AM

Yep. Mine sucked. With the sole exception of my soccer game that we won 6-0.
You ready for this?

So, it all started this morning when my step-dad decided we needed to clean our rooms. So I did, but my little sister wouldn't stop taking stuff and dumping it in the middle of my room (No, it wasn't my stuff. It was things like the computer chair <.< ). I had to carry her downstairs several times, but my parents can't control her, so she kept on doing it. Eventully I just started pushing her out of my room. Then she hit a wall, and started crying. My step-dad came up, asked what happened. I told him. He screamed at me not to touch people, asked me how I would like it if he pushed me, and promptly did. I pushed him back. We stared at each other for a couple seconds, then he turned and went to go yell at my sister. My mom came up, he left the house, she saw me. I had giant red marks on my chest (I was shirt-less) and almost freaked out. She called him, they argued, she told him not to come back. We went to my soccer game and played rock band.

So yeah. That's where things stand right now. Divorce seems likely. Funny thing is, if he had listened to me when my sister was younger, this wouldn't have taken place. Back then, whenever she threw a fit, he would give in, so she learned that she could throw a fit and be a brat to get whatever she wants. I told him that. He ignored me. And lo and behold, she became a brat that he can't control.
Strange how I'm a better parent then he is, and I'm only 17, and this is his 4th try ( I have a step-sister and 2 step-brothers, then the sister in question is half. I'm not even going into how bad the steps are. 4 kids between them, and the oldest is 23. No health insurance or anything. Ok, I did go a bit into it ;) )

In addition to various girl problems I've had recently (mike and yoda know :xcahik_: ), this week offically sucks.


Yeah, I needed to vent. Sorry guys.
So I apolgize for anything I say in advance. I might kill somone. As much as you can on teh interwebz ;)

Edited by Elvenlord, 15 February 2009 - 12:58 AM.

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#2 mike_

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Posted 15 February 2009 - 04:34 AM

Mine was dull, until just an hour ago. Elven and Yoda can probably guess what happened :xcahik_:

#3 Elvenlord

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Posted 15 February 2009 - 04:42 AM

Yes we can.... :xcahik_:

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Posted 15 February 2009 - 07:25 AM

mine was meh. ate a lot of toast and looked for ram on the net.

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Posted 15 February 2009 - 10:28 AM

I ate tacos and had candy... And modded... :xcahik_:

and sorry to hear it Elven, even though it doesn't seem to bother you too much.. But I've been wrong before ;)

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Posted 15 February 2009 - 11:31 AM

I got through the day with no real reminders of it being Valentine's day.
Living alone has it's perks no more overhearing your flatmates making VDay "breakfast".

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Posted 15 February 2009 - 12:19 PM

This is the first time I've actually realised it is Valentine's Day. It's probably handy that I don't have a girlfriend right now, all things considered, given that I spent all of yesterday working. And on Revora...
I hope I am a good enough writer that some day dwarves kill me and drink my blood for wisdom.

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Posted 15 February 2009 - 01:33 PM

I'm sorry to hear about that situation Elven, I really am.

And I don't do Valentine's Day. I hate it.

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Posted 15 February 2009 - 04:12 PM

I ate tacos and had candy... And modded...

and sorry to hear it Elven, even though it doesn't seem to bother you too much.. But I've been wrong before

Oh yes, I got a giant Reese's heart. It was awesome.

It did in the heat of the moment, but I tried to write it in almost 3rd person. But thanks ;)

I'm sorry to hear about that situation Elven, I really am.

And I don't do Valentine's Day. I hate it.

Thanks Matias ;)

I don't either. Except get giant candy hearts :xcahik_:



Anyways, a bit of a update: He is not coming back. While the mental health of our house will improve (maybe), he was the definite bread-winner of the family. My mom's job was basicly just to keep her busy.

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Posted 15 February 2009 - 09:25 PM

Look at it positively. Sure, it's not the happiest imaginable valentine's day, but judging from what you wrote it's better, in the long term, that the guy is gone now.

While the mental health of our house will improve (maybe), he was the definite bread-winner of the family.

With mental health but little money, you can still be happy. With lots of money but no mental health, you cannot. :rolleyes:
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Posted 16 February 2009 - 12:21 AM

True words

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Posted 16 February 2009 - 01:21 AM

With lots of money but no mental health, you cannot. :lol:

I've done alright :rolleyes:
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Posted 17 February 2009 - 05:15 AM

Well, that was crap. I hope things don't turn out too bad for you. My Valentard's Day consisted mostly of me fighting with my mom and her typical nonsensical ranting about how I'll cause god to damn the world or something and that she'll kick me out of the house if I don't plunge a toilet. Seriously, she has some sort of mental disibility that makes her rant like a psychotic person. She gets violent, too. She belted my poor 5 year old half-sister the other day and I nearly broke her wrist trying to get her off. She then started ranting again.
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Posted 20 February 2009 - 07:45 PM

Holy crap Elven, I feel bad for you, and I just got better enought to actually type (I got sick [Me! Of all people! I mean really! I am a fortress against colds and the works! Ah well, I can't brag anymore. :p ], so I didn't have much strength, so I couldn't type, and I still am sick. *cough cough* ), and, CIL, here is what you should do: Call the cops, and pull out a restraining order on dear old mommy. You could, I believe. :p
(Looks for my family's paypal account to send Elven some money) :good:
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Posted 20 February 2009 - 09:44 PM

I always find it difficult to work out a good response in these kind of situations.
And there's little that i could add to those who've posted before me.

So elven, just know that i've read this, and will think about this.
If the above post offended you in any way,
please take note that, until further notice, I don't care, so get lost.

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Posted 21 February 2009 - 04:25 AM

You may place absolutely no value in this, but I'm praying for you and your family. :p

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Posted 21 February 2009 - 05:15 AM

Call the cops, and pull out a restraining order on dear old mommy. You could, I believe. :p

Tried it. Didn't work. My mom bribed the cops with what little she had.
I'm creeping, not gone.

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Posted 21 February 2009 - 05:46 AM

Okay....
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Posted 21 February 2009 - 10:47 AM

I'm pretty sure that's illegal, CIL. Were I you I would not go shouting about it on an open internet forum.

I hope everything gets sorted quickly and cleanly, Elvenlord. Really sorry to hear about all this.
I hope I am a good enough writer that some day dwarves kill me and drink my blood for wisdom.

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Posted 21 February 2009 - 03:56 PM

Thanks alot guys, it really does mean alot.

Well, I got some news. Good or bad? You decide.
He's now back. It was a rather drawn-out process, him calling to ask if it was ok if he came back. At this point I really don't care. He apoligized, etc. I think he's sincere, but I don't know.
Only real reason I'm letting him stay is the fact that I'm going to be gone in a year, and my mom will need all the help she can get. That and now we can get alot more for birthdays and Christmas :p

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