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[Beowulf]

Take one for the team Wulf.

I would except for one little thing... I'm not gay.

[some_weirdGuy]

eh, personally i don't believe in these words. i am straight myself but i doubt that your brain is grouped so easily.

Well, no, cause you can be straight, gay, or bi... not much else you can be unless you start unnecessarily splitting it up (for example 'straight for blond women' and 'open for experimentation' [yeah thats right vort, i'm dissing your added option ]) Those are still heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual.
You are either straight, or you're not. If you're not then you are either fully gay, or bisexual. The words mean one thing or the other, theres no two ways, or half way, about them.

Straight means you like women and not men, straight means completely straight, heterosexual. It doesn't matter what sort of women, it doesn't matter if you are 'mostly straight although open to being gay at times' cause that means you are bisexual(like both), not straight. You are one of the three and theres no other alternatives (unless you have 'nonsexual' as an option which i don't think anyone could truly be).

Unless someone would like to argue the point?

[Pasidon]

Nope, that's pretty much the topic elaborated. Contradicting it would negate the whole conversation.

Take one for the team Wulf.

I would except for one little thing... I'm not gay.

Oh come on... you're bi. You're half way there.

[segwayrulz]

they are general terms people :X

(unless you have 'nonsexual' as an option which i don't think anyone could truly be)

asexual is the same thing as nonsexual

[Beowulf]

Oh come on... you're bi. You're half way there.

But not all the way.

[Vortigern]

I actually know someone who is genuinely asexual. She has erotic dreams that culminate in hugging. And SWG, I am happy to debate this with you. I am generally attracted to women over men, but there are certain men for whom I feel more of an appreciation than a sexual desire, and I like to experiment to see where this leads. I am not bisexual, nor am I gay. It is a very specific emotion that relies heavily on my personal feelings for the man in question and is, honestly, nothing to do with gender. It's more of a compatibility issue.

[Allathar]

Well, it looks like you love him, like you love your brother or sister or parents.

[Pasidon]

Glad you brought this up Vort. Dunno why... but elaborate more. Interestin' conversation piece.

asexual is the same thing as nonsexual

It is? Oh, I do have an option.

Edited by {IP}Pasidon, 18 July 2009 - 05:49 AM.

[some_weirdGuy]

Asexual is more describing germs and stuff, that divide by themselves to multiply, not a sexual preference

Ok vort, an visual aid:
X = Straight
- = Bi
and O = Gay

X---------------------------O

Straight and gay are the two extremes on the chart, all the rest is Bi, it doesn't matter how close you are to either, anywhere between is still Bi.

[Beowulf]

Actually, you're still wrong SWG. Asexual is defined as having no sexual attraction to anyone or anything or one who does not have a desire for sex.

And I'd say your chart is wrong too. I will grant you that few are exclusively one thing but being in the middle doesn't actually make you bisexual. You actually need to have a true sexual attraction to be in the middle. Experimentation doesn't mean bisexuality since an experiment has two possible outcomes - positive or negative. You can extrapolate your own data based on that but the simple fact is that people can be in the middle but not be bi. Vort would be a good example of that actually.

[Rafv Nin IV]

Indeed. For instance, if I was blindfolded and given a blowjob, I'd probably enjoy it instead of worrying whether it was another guy. That makes me not so entirely straight that I'd freak out at the possibility that I'm not having strictly heterosexual contact. However, I sure as hell am not bisexual--I have no intention of soliciting or knowingly accept intimacy with another male.

Of course, I've never been blindfolded and then given a blowjob, so this is all hypothetical.

[Pasidon]

You do dream very still dreams Rafv...

Well, I guess there's only one way to figure out what Asexual means...

Edited by {IP}Pasidon, 20 July 2009 - 08:01 AM.

[Florisz]

Erm...There is a lot of debate going on about straight, bi and gay, but I always thought you are straight when you fall in love with woman/man(depending on what you are ), bi when you fall in love with both genders, and gay when you fall in love with your own genger. Isn't that kinda how it is?

[Puppeteer]

Unless you don't care what gender they are, instead falling in love with their personality and physical beauty irrespective of chromosomes. In which case it's pansexual. Bi is liking both genders. Pan ignores the idea of genders.

Edited by Puppeteer, 20 July 2009 - 08:18 PM.

[Rattuskid]

It's about sex, not love.

You can have one without the other. Think of Jay and Silent Bob, self described as 'heterosexual life partners'. They clearly love one another, just not in a sexual way...

Or think about prison. A lot of guys having sex with guys while claiming they're straight... It ain't love, but they're still homos.

[killakanz]

Possibly Bi. Unsure. Have had a lot of deeply confusing dreams.

Maybe should have voted for straight but open to experimentation

Edited by killakanz, 21 July 2009 - 09:27 AM.

[Bart]

If I were a girl, I might be bi. However, I'm a guy, and I can't understand how anyone can feel attracted to the stinky, rough, hard body that is man (on the outside). Therefore, I'm straight

[Mathijs]

My body is neither stinky nor rough, 2play. It's delightfully soft.

[Bart]

Oh, in that case

[Pasidon]

If I were a girl, I might be bi.

I'm sure that's what they all say. But there are surgeries to find this out for sure.