When I say that I want to keep them on the good side, its mostly about letting them have the "you might be right, but this is a special situation that needs concessions from both sides" instead of "fuck off, we will do it this way or I'll shoot this metaphorical dog!"
Unfortunately, the human rights brigade don't do compromise. They just piss and moan endlessly, and the government doesn't really 'do' conflict with them, because it's bad PR. I don't think the 'social/establishment right' (aka The Man, I suppose) needs to give any more concessions, given the broken state that our society now finds itself in (and the riots rather go some way to prove this), and I don't think the 'social far-left' of the human rights brigade will ever
give any concessions, even in the name of getting society back to a good, ordered, low-crime state.
It is painful when that happens. I suspect we Norwegians right now know better than most the allure of revenge when we have such a moral code and mild prison-system. But I hope and think that by holding to that code even in times of darkness will give us a better spiritual peace when we rise again. Hate is such a powerful emotion, you should not let it control your life. One way or the other.
Again, such a lovely philosophy in a perfect world, sadly unattainable in real life because soft touch doesn't help worth a damn. You give slaps on the wrist all the time, and nobody'll see it as a deterrent. You hammer the crooks from the get-go and some of them - not necessarily all, but some - might learn their lesson and get back on the straight and narrow. Those that it doesn't work on will at least be removed as a threat to the Peace for as long as their sorry arse sits in a cell.
Putting hate into system makes the victims hate you as well, creating a self-fueled circle of fear and enmity between the have and the have-nots. Prison should for 95% of those in it be about correction, not training them to become criminals. The remaining 5% are usually the unforgivable ones that needs to be separated from society, as they have crossed the event horizon.
Except, prison tends not to correct. Either it trains them or they're in there for so short a period that it doesn't matter. And the crims know they won't actually even serve 50% of the sentence they were given; they get let out after a third of it (assuming they even see a prison cell in the first place). I'm not against rehabilitating criminals to make them become something other than worthless scum (although I would argue that in 95% of cases you're wasting your time as you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped - many just want to commit crime as it's easy for them or because they're so maladjusted.), but whether you teach them how to do an honest day's work or just let them sit in a 8'x6' cell all day, prison should be a horrible enough experience that nobody - whether they get rehabilitated or are just your usual recidivist, workless worthless dole-wallowing sack of shit - wants to go back there again if at all possible. As it stands, Butlins holiday camps offer less and worse facilities than HM Prisons. Why would your recidivist, workless worthless dole-wallowing sack of shit do anything else than get sent back there - he gets free cooked meals, TV, playstation, radios, company and pretty much anything else his little heart desires that he might not have or even be able to afford on the outside. Oh, and free drugs. Let's not forget them.
But I guess I'm just repeating my beliefs on punishment here instead of looking into yours. To be honest it will be impossible for me to put myself in the shoes of a British citizen, even less a British police-officer. Your beliefs are probably much more adapted to your current situation, and mine is based upon my civillian low-crime low-unemployment daily life. If I managed to change your opinion, you'd be opening yourself up to a world of hurt because my philosophy does not fit with the people you are seeing every single day. Those that lives by your belief, but on the other side of the medal. But I am sure that if the mood suddenly changed all over the board, it would have been possible. Now, it will just take a very long time and a few generations to get there.
I admire your optimism, my friend. Yeah, my views are based on my experience just as yours are on yours. I would argue though that a day in my life would make you see where I'm coming from. Your society's clearly way better than mine which would prolly explain your rather more optimistic and nicey-nicey view. It also illustrates exactly why I say our (or even, all) politicians are so out of touch that Parliament practically sits on the moon. Politicians (and the human rights brigade) all live in expensive areas where no/few criminals live. They are all affluent, have few worries or stresses, have never had to worry about jobs, are well-educated (though few prove it...) and were often millionaires before they were born. This is the 'middle-class' or 'ruling-class' or whatever you want to call them.
On paper, I am technically middle-class due to my job and my middle-income. I'm not middle-class at all; I'm working-class, both in terms of being at the bottom of the ladder and also through upbringing. I know what the bottom is like, I know how it is to scrimp for money. I know what it's like to go to a scrotey slum school, have numerous worries, have been on the dole for a time, have worried about getting a job and about job security and despite having a bachelor degree have precisely zero chance of getting a graduate job (I could've gotten this job straight from school). I would hypothesise (probably correctly) that there are a greater proportion of people with lives like mine than lives like theirs. I would also suggest that the middle-class cannot realistically comment on the way the lower class lives, as they cannot remotely begin to understand it. I can understand a rich person's life because all one has to do is take away many of the worries the poor person has and increase the quality level of everything the poor person owns, eats and does. The ruling class are not what I would describe as a representative government; how can they be representative of what there is in a deprived area? Nick Clegg is probably the epitome of what I'm trying to illustrate here:
Nick was born in Buckinghamshire (a rich area), to rich parents (his father being a chairman of a bank). He is descended from aristocracy, too, and has therefore known wealth, affluence and prestige from a young age. He went to private school throughout his entire school life. He is multilingual and did exchange studies abroad. He went to Cambridge University, one of the most prestigious universities in the world, where he studied Social Anthropology. He then studied at the University of Minnesota, by scholarship. He did an internship and a second masters degree in Belgium, home country of the EU. He has since worked as part of the European Commission and then part of the Liberal Democrat party.
Nick is also the MP responsible for the Sheffield Hallam constituency. While this is actually (and unsurprisingly) the most affluent area of Sheffield, please tell me exactly what he would have in common with the vast majority of Sheffield's citizens? Clegg has the typical politician's upbringing. Find me one thing that he shares in common with your average denizen of Sheffield and then tell me what right he has to purport he is out for their best interests. Compare his beliefs and outlooks and way of being with David Blunkett (born in Parson's Cross to an underprivileged family...it's no wonder he's Labour despite being tough on immigration and good for the police). Blunkett, I would argue, is a better representative for Sheffield's deprived areas than Clegg could ever be, as he understands it (even though he's been away from it for much of his adult life). Unfortunately, most politicians are more like Clegg in background and less like Blunkett.
Even those who come from poor backgrounds become 'richified' after so long in affluence. I would suggest that those at the top of the tree spend a couple of months of the year living as a member of the most deprived area of their constituency. Likewise, let them live on that lower level of income, too, see how they get along. Let them live in fear of having their house screwed. Tell me then that our society is a good one.
We assume of others what we know of ourselves - That's what I thought right now when I read that line. Not saying that you are all of those things, but it was sort of fitting. I suspect they didn't get there on being bureaucratic assholes their entire lives. Somewhere inside there must be a conviction that is different for all of these people, and most of the non-elite politicians around are humans.
Pretty much every politician started out affluent, or battled their way through tertiary or even quaternary education. They also hold some politic-related job for much of their life and career. They therefore become very familiar with their bureaucracy of choice and don't do much to ease it.