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Hi, I am able to login to online play, create a lobby, have my friend join, set up teams and all the sorts. But when I try to start the game after a few seconds we both get a cannot connect to other players failed message and the loading the game process is halted. Any assistance much appreciated. Thanks 

Waiting for Probe Response is my specific problem I am having, where other players are listed as ready to begin. 

Purchased the game through origin, created a cnc account and server account. I insert the correct information and submit login. Each time I do so I receive the "Buddy Server Connection Refused" I've spent prolly 4-5 hours today since i bought the game trying out different hosting services and what not, to no luck. Please help if you can. Much appreciated. 

Edit: I am attempting to login to the online segment of multiplayer, not the network tab.