More info?
Wont let you delete the SEE folder or wont let you uninstall BFMEII?
You have the SEE folder INSIDE the BFMEII installation, if I understand your post above, yes?
Delete the SEE folder then use Add/Remove programs or the built in uninstaller to uninstall BFMEII. If its not letting you do that, try rebooting and do it, or do it in Safe Mode.
You said these are legit, not cracked or patched installs, yes? Did you download SEE via this forum?
When I try to run the game I get a crash that says "Error parsing field ShadowLOD... and so on. Has anyone gotten this error before and how do I fix it?