Commander RAWR

So i understand that in order to play multiplayer ra3 i need to open some ports on my router.I opened those on my router.The problem is my friend has a thomson TG585v8.0 router.I tried opening the ports but i failed time and again.I checked the guides online but i did nothing again.I know its a port problem because when i try to play with him this

 

 

 

Connections are in progress or conection problem detected.Please wait for the connection to finish,or kick the player who has the connection problem

 

Failed Connection 1-2

Shows up but when i try playing with my other friend who has the ports opened i can play normaly.Any help?Any free programs that can port forward.I am kinda getting desparate here.

Thanks in Advance

RAWR

When i try to play a game with my friends,i host it.We go in the lobby pick our factions etc and when we try to start this shows

Connections are in progress or conection problem detected.Please wait for the connection to finish,or kick the player who has the connection problem

Failed Connection 1-2 1-3 2-3

Help