Peer pressure? It's quite the other way around here.
Vent your anger topic
Started by CIL, Mar 27 2009 12:29 AM
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Posted 09 July 2010 - 09:24 PM
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Sieben Elefanten hatte Herr Dschin
Und da war dann noch der achte.
Sieben waren wild und der achte war zahm
Und der achte war's, der sie bewachte.
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Posted 09 July 2010 - 11:04 PM
Sounds like there's some commercial invitation from peers with Alli.Usually drink only with friends
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Posted 09 July 2010 - 11:27 PM
Looks like you don't have any friends.
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Posted 09 July 2010 - 11:43 PM
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Posted 16 July 2010 - 10:57 PM
I vent that my girlfriend is being extremely clingy and annoying...
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Posted 16 July 2010 - 11:35 PM
I vent that people complain about having a girlfriend.
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Posted 16 July 2010 - 11:48 PM
Been there. Trust me. I went for about 16 years without having one. And I've only had like 3 in my life. You and me both know it sucks not having one. But it also sucks when you do, and they wont leave you alone. I've spent 6 of the last 7 days with her, and she is eating up all my time. It's pissing me off... I like being my own person too...
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Posted 17 July 2010 - 12:27 AM
Have you thought about telling her that? Anyway, advice time: if she's going through anything genuinely upsetting, you have to be there for her all the way, that's just the way relationships work. If she's not and is just being clingy, you have two options: #1, explain the situation to her and ask her to let you have a bit more time to yourself, or #2, break up. If you want different things from the relationship, it won't work. Trust someone who's been through it and save yourself the time and trouble.
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Posted 17 July 2010 - 02:04 AM
Well, while we're comparing levels of life-suckage, I went sixteen years as well to get one relationship... which turned into a "rough breakup", to put it mildly, and a year-long court battle over custody of our child. Since then, I've tried five or six times to get even a casual relationship going, to epic failure each time. Huzzah.Been there. Trust me. I went for about 16 years without having one. And I've only had like 3 in my life. You and me both know it sucks not having one. But it also sucks when you do, and they wont leave you alone. I've spent 6 of the last 7 days with her, and she is eating up all my time. It's pissing me off... I like being my own person too...
But yeah, I know what you mean. Just don't let her move in
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Posted 17 July 2010 - 02:16 AM
She's had a rough past, and things sometimes get sticky in her life. But the bottom line is, I'm 18, and act more like an adult. She's 16, and acts like a teenage girl. I want someone older, and more mature. But I can't break her heart... She's "in love" with me. (though, it's not fake... I don't think.)Have you thought about telling her that? Anyway, advice time: if she's going through anything genuinely upsetting, you have to be there for her all the way, that's just the way relationships work. If she's not and is just being clingy, you have two options: #1, explain the situation to her and ask her to let you have a bit more time to yourself, or #2, break up. If you want different things from the relationship, it won't work. Trust someone who's been through it and save yourself the time and trouble.
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Posted 17 July 2010 - 09:38 AM
You're not doing her any favours by dragging it out. If you're willing to stick it out because you really care for her, that's one thing, but if you're staying out of guilt, that'll be the death of the relationship faster than you realise.
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Posted 17 July 2010 - 11:14 AM
I suppose just telling her you want some more ´alone time´ is the best option. If she really loves you, she´ll understand. If not, I don´t think she fits well with you...
It has been reported that some victims of rape, during the act, would retreat into a fantasy world from which they could not WAKE UP. In this catatonic state, the victim lived in a world just like their normal one, except they weren't being raped. The only way that they realized they needed to WAKE UP was a note they found in their fantasy world. It would tell them about their condition, and tell them to WAKE UP. Even then, it would often take months until they were ready to discard their fantasy world and PLEASE WAKE UP
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Posted 18 July 2010 - 12:47 AM
What is this 'love' you speak of? Neh... if there is the slightest hint of flaw, the entire relationship is compromised. Ditch the lady, Kwennathan. Either now or later... or live in denial forever.
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Posted 18 July 2010 - 02:07 AM
Holy hell Kwen you have the same issues i do. Like DEAD ON. And i can't find it in my heart to break my gf's heart...Idk, i understand you.
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Posted 18 July 2010 - 09:45 AM
My god, it's almost like at some point everyone goes through basically the same stuff! What a revelation!
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Posted 18 July 2010 - 04:04 PM
Does this mean we have finally figured out women?!?!?!?
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Posted 18 July 2010 - 05:05 PM
There isn't a whole lot to figure out.
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Posted 18 July 2010 - 07:44 PM
This is true. Lol, unfortunately. And yes Vort i'm well aware of thatThere isn't a whole lot to figure out.
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Posted 18 July 2010 - 10:04 PM
It's not hard to figure out how they work. It's hard to figure out how to work them. lol
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Posted 18 July 2010 - 10:11 PM
You guys are no fun.
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